Jeffrey’s Twitter Updates for 2009-01-01

  • Happy New Year! #
  • Piece of trivia; a colleague used to have (the) Dick Clark as a babysitter. What a cool real-life story! #
  • Time to watch Dick Clark. #
  • Delicious cake. #
  • Making Irish Coffees with fresh whipped cream. #
  • Delicious fondue, Jean! #
  • Getting ready for home-made cheese fondue New Year’s Eve dinner. The best! #
  • Opened a wonderful bottle of Chateauneuf du Pape. #
  • Getting ready for New Year’s dinner with a good friend. #
  • Just achieved Inbox 0 at work. Nice way to end the day and the year. #
  • Anybody out there a member of the Association of Internet Researchers http://aoir.org/ ? #
  • Ate Indian food for lunch. Nice and warm after walking through the snow that is falling in NYC right now. #
  • The office is quiet today. #
  • Spencer had an eye doctor appointment this morning. Headed to the office. #

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New Year’s Resolution—I Am Enough

Year after year I make New Year’s Resolutions for change. I have numbered them, listed them on paper, entered them into Outlook pop-ups, carried them in my pockets, put them around on Post-Its, told people about them, kept them close if they were personal, repeated them as a mantra, and other methods that have been forgotten just as the resolutions themselves have.

This year, I am planning something different. Rather than try for change, I am going to do just the opposite—accept what already is.

With my appreciation for Reflective Practice as a disciplinary methodology and my need to blog to help realize the results and the process itself, I am sharing my thinking on this resolution this year.

My resolution is a mantra I have tried out for the past few days and it feels right for me. It seems to fit in a way that I can understand and will try to incorporate into my life. In this regard, I understand I Am Enough as meaning that I will focus on appreciating what I have, already am, have accomplished, think, and feel. For some background, I at times think about what I am not or have not done or thought or felt, more than what I am, have done, thought, or felt. I tend to apologize (at least to myself) for my omissions and lack of, rather than appreciating and accepting what I already am all about.  I tend to think I am not smart enough, not in shape enough, have not written enough, have not worked enough, relaxed enough, socialized enough, taught enough, traveled enough, and on and on.

I am resolving to accept what I have done, not perhaps as being the best or most or highest or grandest or what have you, but in a much simpler way:  they are enough. This recalls a colleague years ago who was told by a professor, after slaving away on a paper that seemed to be going nowhere, that “sometimes good enough is good enough.” This is what I mean by I Am Enough.

Yes, this is a resolution that does involve some change I suppose, and changes in perspective can be as challenging as changing behaviors. However, I think this perspective is one that just feels like it may be the one that will help me move forward with my life by grounding me in my own very real experiences.

I hope my explanation does not appear as an apology, as it is not. I am explaining this to try to put words to what I have already decided. This is my resolution, and it is a good enough one as any.